Harder Than The First
BarlowGirl Lyrics


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I walked with you
Just like we've done for so long
You seemed so near
But even that's become so common

It's not just you, just been together so long
That I thought I knew everything about you
But today I saw; did you open up my eyes?
'Cause I feel like I've just seen you for the first time

[Chorus]
I didn't see you
But God I want to
You've come alive
And I think I've fallen harder than the first time

Was I so blind; how did I not see you?
Yet in all that time you never left my side
So for all my life, I will live to know you
So here I am; I'll take your hand

[Chorus]

I see your face; I feel you close
The love you've always shown me
Won't miss it now, can't waste a day
Jesus I'm yours completely





[Chorus]

Overall Meaning

In BarlowGirl's song "Harder Than the First Time," the singer is realizing that they have been taking their significant other for granted. They've been together for so long that they've become complacent in their relationship and started to think that they knew everything about their partner. However, something has changed, and the singer is seeing their partner in a new light. They are realizing that they've never truly seen their partner before, even though they've been together for so long. This newfound understanding has caused the singer to fall in love with their partner all over again, harder than the first time.


The chorus of the song expresses the singer's desire to get to know their partner on a deeper level, to truly see them for who they are. They are filled with a sense of wonder and amazement at the love that they've been given and are willing to devote their life to knowing their partner. The song ends with a declaration that the singer now belongs fully to Jesus, which can be interpreted as a metaphor for their newfound love and commitment to their partner.


Overall, "Harder Than the First Time" is a powerful reminder of the importance of not taking our loved ones for granted. It's easy to slip into complacency and forget to appreciate the people in our lives, but this song encourages us to open our eyes and see our loved ones for who they truly are.


Line by Line Meaning

I walked with you
I have been with you for so long


Just like we've done for so long
We have been together for a long time


You seemed so near
You used to be so close to me


But even that's become so common
But now it is not the same anymore


It's not just you, just been together so long
It's not your fault, we have just been together for so long


That I thought I knew everything about you
That I thought I knew everything about you


But today I saw; did you open up my eyes?
But today I realized that I didn't know you as I thought I did


'Cause I feel like I've just seen you for the first time
Because I feel like I am seeing you in a new light


I didn't see you
I didn't see the real you


But God I want to
But God, I want to see the real you


You've come alive
You are vibrant and full of life


And I think I've fallen harder than the first time
And I think I am falling in love with you all over again


Was I so blind; how did I not see you?
How did I not notice the real you before?


Yet in all that time you never left my side
Yet, you have always been with me through it all


So for all my life, I will live to know you
So, for the rest of my life, I want to get to know the real you


So here I am; I'll take your hand
So here I am, ready to take your hand


I see your face; I feel you close
I see your face and I feel that you are close to me


The love you've always shown me
The love that you have always had for me


Won't miss it now, can't waste a day
I won't take it for granted now, can't waste any more time


Jesus I'm yours completely
Jesus, I belong to you completely




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: ALYSSA KATHERINE BARLOW, BARLOWGIRL ., BARLOWGIRL BARLOWGIRL, LAUREN ASHLEY NICOLE BARLOW, MARY ANN BARLOW, REBECCA ELIZABETH MARIE BARLOW, VINCENT ROBERT FRANCIS BARLOW

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