There is more than one artist with this name:
1) a anarcho-punk band… Read Full Bio ↴There is more than one artist with this name:
1) a anarcho-punk band from South London.
2) an industrial metal band from Moscow, Russia.
3) a Japanese breakbeat artist
4) a gospel rap artist from Sacramento, CA.
5) an 80's hardcore band from Tucson, AZ.
6) Goa trance from Jerusalem
1) Conflict is an anarcho-punk band originally based around Eltham in South London. Formed in 1981, the band's original line up consisted of: Colin Jerwood (vocals), Paco (drums), Big John (bass), Steve (guitars), Pauline (vocals), Paul AKA 'Nihilistic Nobody' (visuals). Their first release was the EP "The House That Man Built" on Crass Records. By the time they released their debut album It's Time To See Who's Who on Corpus Christi Records, Pauline and Paul had left the band. Conflict later set up their own Mortarhate label, which put out releases by other artists including Hagar The Womb, Icons of Filth, Lost Cherrees, The Apostles, Admit Your Shit and others.
In 1983 Steve Ignorant, at the time a member of the band Crass, guested on the band's pro-animal rights single "To A Nation of Animal Lovers." After the dissolution of Crass, Ignorant later became second vocalist for Conflict on a semi-permanent basis. This followed a 1986 gig in Brixton, London wherin he had joined the band on stage for a few numbers.
The band have always been outspoken regarding issues such as anarchism, animal rights, the anti-war movement and in their support for the organisation Class War, and a number of their gigs during the 1980s were followed by riots and disturbances. The band's 'Mortarhate' logo, originally designed by 'Nihilistic Nobody' is commonly mistaken as a reference to the initials CND (Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament), but as quoted directly by paco the drummer for conflict is in actual fact a nihlist symbol. it incorporates two 'A's for anarchy and autonomy, and an 'N' for nihilism. The logo originally appeared around 1980 in Thanatos, a small circulation pamphlet produced by Toxic Graffity (sic) fanzine editor Mike Diboll.
The band continues to exist today, although their record releases and live performances are sporadic.
2) CONFLICT\CONFLИCT is an industrial death metal band from Moscow, Russia. Band formed in 2004, and finally released first LP, called "Prototip\Прототип", in february 2009. http://www.myspace.com/conflictmetal
3) Conflict is a Japanese breakbeats/downtempo unit name currently on the Soup-Disk/Corde Inc. labels.
4) Introducing Conflict, a west coast youth evangelist and gospel rap artist from Sacramento, California.
Violence?
With such a name as Conflict, most people would assume the title represents violence or war. Well, the name means just that, only in a different context. In such a world as the one we live in, corrupted by lust, abuse, addiction and a lack of sexual integrity, Conflict stands to counterattack society's ideas of morality, with God's divine purpose for His creation.
Vision
With a burden for today's generation of young people, Conflict's vision is to "speak life right into the face of death, and stand as an ambassador of Jesus Christ, to reconcile a love- relationship between God and His creation." Coming from a gang-related past and his father's fatal overdose of heroin, Conflict speaks a common language to young people of the urban culture
5) Conflict was a hardcore band from Tucson, AZ, together between 1982-1984. Fronted by the female vocalist/bassist Karen Allman, they played with the likes of Black Flag, Minor Threat, Ill Repute, Channel 3, D.O.A., and many more. They put out a self-released EP called "America's Right," then in 1983 they released their only studio album, "Last Hour" (on Placebo Records). They also have 3 songs on the compilation "This is Phoenix, Not the Circle Jerks." The band was known for their biting feminist lyrics in an era when hardcore was highly male-dominated.
5) Conflict Special Goa/Psytrance Project from Jerusalem, also known as Do-D-Idea.
1) a anarcho-punk band… Read Full Bio ↴There is more than one artist with this name:
1) a anarcho-punk band from South London.
2) an industrial metal band from Moscow, Russia.
3) a Japanese breakbeat artist
4) a gospel rap artist from Sacramento, CA.
5) an 80's hardcore band from Tucson, AZ.
6) Goa trance from Jerusalem
1) Conflict is an anarcho-punk band originally based around Eltham in South London. Formed in 1981, the band's original line up consisted of: Colin Jerwood (vocals), Paco (drums), Big John (bass), Steve (guitars), Pauline (vocals), Paul AKA 'Nihilistic Nobody' (visuals). Their first release was the EP "The House That Man Built" on Crass Records. By the time they released their debut album It's Time To See Who's Who on Corpus Christi Records, Pauline and Paul had left the band. Conflict later set up their own Mortarhate label, which put out releases by other artists including Hagar The Womb, Icons of Filth, Lost Cherrees, The Apostles, Admit Your Shit and others.
In 1983 Steve Ignorant, at the time a member of the band Crass, guested on the band's pro-animal rights single "To A Nation of Animal Lovers." After the dissolution of Crass, Ignorant later became second vocalist for Conflict on a semi-permanent basis. This followed a 1986 gig in Brixton, London wherin he had joined the band on stage for a few numbers.
The band have always been outspoken regarding issues such as anarchism, animal rights, the anti-war movement and in their support for the organisation Class War, and a number of their gigs during the 1980s were followed by riots and disturbances. The band's 'Mortarhate' logo, originally designed by 'Nihilistic Nobody' is commonly mistaken as a reference to the initials CND (Campaign for Nuclear Disarmament), but as quoted directly by paco the drummer for conflict is in actual fact a nihlist symbol. it incorporates two 'A's for anarchy and autonomy, and an 'N' for nihilism. The logo originally appeared around 1980 in Thanatos, a small circulation pamphlet produced by Toxic Graffity (sic) fanzine editor Mike Diboll.
The band continues to exist today, although their record releases and live performances are sporadic.
2) CONFLICT\CONFLИCT is an industrial death metal band from Moscow, Russia. Band formed in 2004, and finally released first LP, called "Prototip\Прототип", in february 2009. http://www.myspace.com/conflictmetal
3) Conflict is a Japanese breakbeats/downtempo unit name currently on the Soup-Disk/Corde Inc. labels.
4) Introducing Conflict, a west coast youth evangelist and gospel rap artist from Sacramento, California.
Violence?
With such a name as Conflict, most people would assume the title represents violence or war. Well, the name means just that, only in a different context. In such a world as the one we live in, corrupted by lust, abuse, addiction and a lack of sexual integrity, Conflict stands to counterattack society's ideas of morality, with God's divine purpose for His creation.
Vision
With a burden for today's generation of young people, Conflict's vision is to "speak life right into the face of death, and stand as an ambassador of Jesus Christ, to reconcile a love- relationship between God and His creation." Coming from a gang-related past and his father's fatal overdose of heroin, Conflict speaks a common language to young people of the urban culture
5) Conflict was a hardcore band from Tucson, AZ, together between 1982-1984. Fronted by the female vocalist/bassist Karen Allman, they played with the likes of Black Flag, Minor Threat, Ill Repute, Channel 3, D.O.A., and many more. They put out a self-released EP called "America's Right," then in 1983 they released their only studio album, "Last Hour" (on Placebo Records). They also have 3 songs on the compilation "This is Phoenix, Not the Circle Jerks." The band was known for their biting feminist lyrics in an era when hardcore was highly male-dominated.
5) Conflict Special Goa/Psytrance Project from Jerusalem, also known as Do-D-Idea.
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An Option I'd like to make a statement Which is - I'm no…
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Berkshire Cunt Filled with love and compassion. As she fixes her make-up…
Big A Little A Big A, little A, bouncing B The system might have got…
Blind Attack Left wing, right wing, you've heard it all before But…
Blood Morons Political factions stepping into line They think they're hel…
Bomb A plan set up for us all Man will witness its…
Bullshit Broadcast You don't care about people's thoughts. You probe into the…
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Cruise Cruise missiles have arrived, despite our protest and anger …
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Do They Owe Us a Living Fuck the politically minded, here′s something I want to say,…
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17:47, I actually have a core memory of someone coming out of a fancy take-out restaurant with a bag full of food for his family (presumably). But he tripped and fell, dropping everything on the ground. He just stood there for like 10 seconds, staring at the spilled food. I was maybe 6 or 7 at the time, and I thought I was feeling an explosion of complex mucky emotions I didn't understand at that time coming from that man that was only a couple of meters away from me.
Two decades later, through therapy and all that, I realized that I was constantly trying to prevent people around me from feeling those kinds of emotions. By that I mean the emotions people label as being "lower frequency emotions" or something. Needless to say, those emotions (like anger, sadness, fear, and even more nuanced ones like shame) were suppressed to the max within myself, and stopped me from being authentic with the people around me.
What ultimately led me to shed that weight off, was to sit down and re-imagine that scene of the man falling, and myself as a kid simply watching. As an adult, I now know that this man was probably frozen in place simply because he was processing his emotions, and figuring out what to do next. It wasn't a life-ending situation. He simply dropped food on the ground. Maybe he was feeling embarrassed, sad at the loss of money, or whatever. What he was feeling isn't what's important. It's what I was feeling as a kid. I had put myself in his shoes and, being a kid with no money, I couldn't have fixed the situation if that happened to me. Now that I know more about the different emotions and how they feel inside of myself, I can re-experience that scene with adult eyes. Thinking: "Damn, that's a real shame. I'd probably be a little dazed and a bit upset at my own clumsiness if that happened to me. Rough day for that man. I genuinely wish good on him, and that he is able to get new food."
So here's advice from an admittedly young person who just discovered their first white beard hair the other day: Learn about yourself and what makes you tick. Feel those emotions deeply, even the more negative ones. Aim to understand how those emotions feel inside of your body, so you can notice them even when your nervous system is going crazy. Notice the good emotions also, and feel them vividly, because you deserve to experience those ones as well.
Remember: You can't "logic" yourself out of every single situation. Don't go on this path alone, even if it feels like it's easier. People have value, and so do you. Mix and match your wisdom together and you will both emerge as fuller, brighter people.
@tinaperez7393
Lots of great things here:
- assertiveness is a critical skill that everyone, but HSPs especially, needs to learn.
- HSPs especially need to practice and get good at "distress tolerance". Yours and other people's. Emma and Jonathan mentioned the possibility of doing another video on just that. That would be a good topic to cover.
- the John Gottman (sp?) book sounds like a great one to read. I myself REALLY need help being POSITIVE / actually effective in how I communicate my needs and wants with people. The example of saying things like "i would really feel abc (loved, supported, helped), if you did xyz" - figuring out and telling someone how they can be the hero in a given scenario is something I really need to write down, remember and practice.
I tend to attack, go for the jugular, guns blazing, full force, full fight mode, throwing everything and the kitchen sink at someone. - And this is with me even KNOWING this is the wrong thing / ineffective even relationship sabotaging thing to do, but i don't have better ways to do it / better tools.
I guess I don't feel like I'm cared about, or seen or heard, and so I'm trying ro force the other person to see and hear me.
But of course my angry, knee kerk, reactionary, primitive brain approach has just the opposite effect.
@lilytea3
0:00: 🎥 Jonathan Decker from Cinema Therapy and Mended Light discusses conflict resolution and management for highly sensitive people.
2:54: 🎯 The video discusses the challenges faced by highly sensitive physicists in a capitalist society.
5:08: 🍴 The speaker shares a personal story about a book club meeting where there were no forks for the salad.
7:57: 😮 Highly sensitive people feel emotions intensely and value the comfort of others while strongly opposing causing discomfort or inconvenience.
10:16: 😡 Highly sensitive people (HSPs) often struggle with anger and passive aggressiveness in relationships.
12:39: 🗣 Being direct and honest with others is important for maintaining healthy relationships and avoiding resentment and bitterness.
15:11: 🗣 Highly sensitive people (HSPs) often just want to be heard and validated rather than seeking advice or solutions.
17:51: 🤔 The video discusses how highly sensitive people (HSPs) manage discomfort and receive feedback in relationships.
20:16: 🗣 Effective communication strategies in relationships can help prevent emotional shutdowns during intense conversations.
Recap by Tammy AI
@catchingstars7
Good collab! Good talk. Answer to his question: As an HSP, I've seen both sides of dealing with conflict. I know the standard way, and I've devised a solution that's a ZEN way to deal with intense conflict. It has steps.
When a conflict breaks out between two people on the other side of the room, or between me and another person, my natural instinct is to get into flight mode. If that doesn't work, I go into freeze/fawn-mode where it's easiest to quell the conflict by accept accusations regardless of whether they are correct, and to be the saviour, and to be the validating person. Then my HSP uses me. ALTERNATIVELY,
I become aware that a conflict is breaking out and I warn my body that this will be uncomfortable, so my body actively acknowledges the conflict (instead of trying to ignore/deny/refrain involvement). "Ok there's conflict over there." And next, I imagine a bubble around me, because their emotions don't have to me my emotions. "I'm going to put up my mental shield." And next, I can let the conflict happen around me, where I actively remind myself that the 'conflict' is just a LOUD conversation between. "These are two scared animals that both want to find the best way to be safe. They both argue intensely on the short-term about the best way to avoid long-term conflict. And avoiding short-term conflict causes big issues on the long-term. So it's healthy these two people talk like that."
If I'm in the conflict, then I use my HSP. I use my sensitivity as a tool for conflict resolution. I also do this: I try to see where I am in the drama triangle, and which drama triangle that person sketches, then I ask myself how to make it into a positive anti-drama triangle. Sometimes, I admit out loud that I am not entirely clear on how to say what want, and I ask the other person to help me verbalize my thoughts and wishes. I use MANY of Emma's techniques to name&acknowledge their intense emotion, figure out if there are secondary emotions, validate that it must hurt to have a boundary crossed, and I use 'non-violent communication' techniques.
Now I can stand in front of loudly complaining customers or panicking friends, or arguing strangers, and I can be completely zen, exhale, and think: "that sounds like your problem, and it's not mine to fix." And I'll be happy.
@alisondunning7116
How many of us HSPs grew up with emotionally dis-regulated parents? I did and I can’t tell if repeatedly watching my Dad dissolve into rage was how I learned to read people and try to avoid conflict, or if I was just born that way …?
@barbelarmbroster6524
I think it is both. We were born with this predisposition. And we used our ability every day in order to survive a hostile environment. Finally we became masters of this skill.
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@dreaminginjapan
My dad was military and my mom came from a really broken home. Their trauma and rage was so overwhelming I can't even explain it.
@dc3561
Not sure if it's nature vs nurture or a mix of both, but my environment was not safe, I had a narcissistic mother and brother and both had malignant tendencies in the form of physically injuring me to get me to do what they want and I too had to start to learn to read their tells to try to reduce the severity of the injuries or delay them causing the injuries.
@vanshikathakur
Same 🙌🏻
@dnarose3869
How I manage my response to other people's emotions: I remind myself their emotions are not my emotions and that I am safe and I take a few deep breaths.
@lisalongton4441
I need to get this tattooed on my arm... 😆Thank you. This is great.
@brookesethmiller5137
I have to remind myself of this too- also to let them have their feelings. It’s really hard because on a deep level I feel I have to quench out my own feelings as a maladaptive behavior. That opens up a while can of worms for me deeply so that I can learn to allow myself to have my own feelings and be less codependent
@krestahumphrey2718
"I am safe" is sooo under-rated. Most physical symptoms experienced by an HSP is our body telling us we are not safe. If we can recognise this in the moment and remind ourselves that we are actually safe, that is life changing. If, however, we are not safe - well, that is another story all together but a calm response is ALWAYS more helpful than a hyper response.