Glad To Be Unhappy
Étienne Daho Lyrics


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Look at yourself
If you had the sense of humor
You would laugh to beat the band

Look at yourself
Do you still believe in rumor
That romance is simply grand?
Since you took it right on the chin
You have lost that bright
Toothpaste grin

My mental state is all a jumble
I sit around and sadly mumble

Fools rush in, so here I am
Very glad to be unhappy

Unrequited loves a bore
And I've got it pretty bad
But for someone you adore
It's a pleasure to be sad

Like a straying baby lamb




With no mammy and no pappy
I'm so unhappy but oh, so glad

Overall Meaning

“Glad To Be Unhappy” by Étienne Daho is a cover of a Rodgers and Hart’s song popularized first in the 1930s. The song talks about the nature of romantic love and the paradoxical nature of being happy to be unhappy. The song’s first two stanzas invite the listener to inspect themselves – if they had a sense of humor, they would be able to laugh at themselves. The song seems to be suggesting that one can be self-deprecating about one’s love life if they are able to look at themselves through a humorous lens.


The following stanzas move from the general to the specific. They speculate about a person who has lost their romantic idealism, who no longer believes in the grandiloquent expressions of love, and who has been disappointed in love. Consequently, they seem to have lost their radiance, represented by their “bright Toothpaste grin”. The singer confesses to being in a mental state of flux - unhappy but accepting, jumbled but insightful. They then quote the proverb “Fools rush in, so here I am”, which means that they know they are making a mistake by pursuing happiness in love but they can’t stop themselves.


The song ends with a seeming contradiction- the singer is unhappy but is also glad to be in that position. They compare themselves to a “straying baby lamb with no mammy and no pappy”, which is both sad and cute. The song’s final lines suggest that there is a pleasure to being sad for the sake of someone else. This idea is rather puzzling, and the song leaves the listener with a lot to contemplate.


Line by Line Meaning

Look at yourself
Take a good, hard look at yourself


If you had the sense of humor
If you were able to find humor in your situation


You would laugh to beat the band
You would laugh uncontrollably


Do you still believe in rumor
Do you still believe in the idea


That romance is simply grand?
That romance is always wonderful?


Since you took it right on the chin
Since you were hit hard with a problem


You have lost that bright
You have lost your


Toothpaste grin
Wide, bright smile


My mental state is all a jumble
I am very confused and distressed


I sit around and sadly mumble
I sit around and speak quietly and sadly


Fools rush in, so here I am
I am now in this situation because I acted rashly


Very glad to be unhappy
I am happy with the sadness that comes from unrequited love


Unrequited loves a bore
Unrequited love is dull and uninteresting


And I've got it pretty bad
I am experiencing it strongly


But for someone you adore
For someone you are very fond of


It's a pleasure to be sad
It can be enjoyable to feel the sadness brought about by unrequited love


Like a straying baby lamb
Like a lost baby animal


With no mammy and no pappy
Without a mother or father


I'm so unhappy but oh, so glad
I am very sad but also somewhat happy




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., IMAGEM MUSIC INC
Written by: LORENZ HART, RICHARD RODGERS

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