I'll Be Hard To Handle
Ella Fitzgerald Lyrics


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Now we'll say till something do us part
That old dad of mine ain't got a heart
Any girl who's out for pleasure
Thinks of marriage only at her leisure
As it is, they've got the horse behind the cart

When my pop said we must wed,
He kind of wowed me, still I'm read-y
But one thing must be clear
At this time

I'll be hard to handle
I promise you that
And if you complain
Here's one little Jane
Who'll leave you flat

I'll be hard to handle
What else can I be
I say with a shrug
I think you're a mug
To marry me

When you first threw me a gander
I was willing to philander
But I never thought I'd have to be a bride
Now you're gonna find tough sledding
I don't want no shotgun wedding
I was only along for the ride

I'll be hard to handle
I'm telling you plain
Just be a dear
And scram out of here
I'm gonna raise cain

I'll be hard to handle
My bridges are burned
This wedding's a gag
And you're in the bag
Where I'm concerned

I'll be hard to handle
When we've said, "I do"
See there's no hope
I just got a dope
When I took you

I'll be living my life in bed
But they always will be twin beds
And I warn you, you'll be living like a monk
Our affair is now a past one
So don't think you've pulled a fast one
Just remember, I think you're a punk!

I'll be hard to handle
I'm no ball and chain
I'll find some means
To call the Marines
I'm gonna raise cain

Gonna raise cain




I'm telling you plain
I'm gonna raise cain

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Ella Fitzgerald's song "I'll Be Hard To Handle" are a tongue-in-cheek take on marriage in the mid-twentieth century. The song is sung from the perspective of a woman who is only getting married because her father has pressured her into it. The woman resents the idea of marriage and promises to be difficult to handle. She sees marriage as a ball and chain and doesn't want to be tied down.


The woman is also frustrated with societal expectations. She believes women are supposed to want marriage and that they only consider it when they are bored with their lives. She sees the institution of marriage as a flawed system where the cart is before the horse. By the end of the song, the woman is telling her fiancé that he's a punk and that she'll call the Marines to get out of the marriage. The song is a humorous take on the tensions of marriage in the mid-twentieth century.


Line by Line Meaning

Now we'll say till something do us part
From now on, we will declare that our relationship will only end with death.


That old dad of mine ain't got a heart
My father lacks emotions and empathy.


Any girl who's out for pleasure
A woman who seeks enjoyment and amusement.


Thinks of marriage only at her leisure
Considers marriage as an option, only when it doesn't hinder her happiness.


As it is, they've got the horse behind the cart
They have got the order wrong, and the priorities are misaligned.


When my pop said we must wed,
When my father said that we had to get married,


He kind of wowed me, still I'm read-y
I was surprised and not entirely convinced, but now I am prepared.


But one thing must be clear
However, there is one thing that you must know,


At this time
Right now.


I'll be hard to handle
I will be challenging to manage.


I promise you that
I guarantee you that it'll be taxing.


And if you complain
If you register any displeasure,


Here's one little Jane
Then let me tell you,


Who'll leave you flat
I will abandon you immediately.


What else can I be
What other option is there for me?


I say with a shrug
I don't care, and I am not afraid to show it.


I think you're a mug
I believe that you are foolish.


To marry me
For choosing to become my spouse.


When you first threw me a gander
When you first gave me a look-over,


I was willing to philander
I was ready to cheat on my partner.


But I never thought I'd have to be a bride
But I never expected to get married.


Now you're gonna find tough sledding
Now you will have a tough time.


I don't want no shotgun wedding
I don't want a rushed wedding.


I was only along for the ride
I was only present for the experience.


My bridges are burned
I have cut off all ties.


This wedding's a gag
This marriage is a joke.


And you're in the bag
And you got tricked into it.


Where I'm concerned
From my point of view.


When we've said, "I do"
After we have publicly declared our vows,


See there's no hope
You will recognize that there is no possibility of improvement.


I just got a dope
I received a piece of information.


When I took you
When I selected you as my partner.


I'll be living my life in bed
I will be living without any desires or ambition.


But they always will be twin beds
But we will sleep in separate beds.


And I warn you, you'll be living like a monk
And you will be living a life of abstinence and isolation.


Our affair is now a past one
Our relationship is now a thing of the past.


So don't think you've pulled a fast one
Don't think that you have tricked me.


Just remember, I think you're a punk!
Remember that I consider you to be weak and ineffective.


I'm no ball and chain
I am not someone who enjoys being tied down.


I'll find some means
I will search for a way.


To call the Marines
To invite the military to intervene.


I'm gonna raise cain
I will behave in a disruptive and chaotic manner.


Gonna raise cain
Going to behave chaotically.


I'm telling you plain
I am warning you directly.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: BERNARD DOUGALL, JEROME KERN

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