To Keep My Love Alive
Ella Fitzgerald Lyrics


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I've been married, and married, and often I've sighed
"I'm never a bridesmaid, I'm always a bride"

I never divorced them, I hadn't the heart
Yet remember these sweet words, "'till death do us part"

I married many men, a ton of them
Because I was untrue to none of them
Because I bumped off every one of them
To keep my love alive

Sir Paul was frail, he looked a wreck to me
At night he was a horse's neck to me
So I performed an appendectomy
To keep my love alive

Sir Thomas had insomnia, he couldn't sleep at night
I bought a little arsenic, he's sleeping now all right

Sir Philip played the harp, I cussed the thing
I crowned him with his harp to bust the thing
And now he plays where harps are just the thing
To keep my love alive
To keep my love alive

(bridge)
I thought Sir George had possibilities
But his flirtations made me ill at ease
And when I'm ill at ease, I kill at ease
To keep my love alive

Sir Charles came from a sanatorium
And yelled for drinks in my emporium
I mixed one drink, he's in memorium
To keep my love alive

Sir Francis was a singing bird, a nightingale, that's why
I tossed him off my balcony, to see if he, could fly

Sir Atherton indulged in fratricide,
He killed his dad and that was patricide
One night I stabbed him by my mattress-side
To keep my love alive




To keep my love alive
To keep my love alive

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Ella Fitzgerald's song, "To Keep My Love Alive," are satirical, and the singer assumes the persona of a woman who has been married many times. She humorously expresses her frustration with being a bride rather than a bridesmaid and not having the opportunity to be with many different men. However, she also mentions that she did not divorce any of her husbands and instead resorted to murder to get rid of them.


The singer then proceeds to describe how she got rid of each of her husbands in a lighthearted way. She performed an appendectomy on a sickly man, slipped arsenic into another's drink, and threw one off a balcony to see if he could fly. She goes on to describe how she helped another husband find his calling in the afterlife and even killed one who had committed patricide.


Despite the dark theme, the song is meant to be humorous and satirical. It pokes fun at the idea of marrying for love and goes to extreme lengths to show how outlandish the idea of killing one's partner to keep love alive truly is.


Line by Line Meaning

I've been married, and married, and often I've sighed
I have been married multiple times and did it with a sigh of discontentment


"I'm never a bridesmaid, I'm always a bride"
I never became a bridesmaid and would always get married instead


I never divorced them, I hadn't the heart
I couldn't bring myself to divorce any of my spouses


Yet remember these sweet words, "'till death do us part"
But I still remember the vow "'till death do us part" that I made to each of them


I married many men, a ton of them
I married a lot of men


Because I was untrue to none of them
However, I was never unfaithful to any of them


Because I bumped off every one of them
Instead, I killed all of them


Sir Paul was frail, he looked a wreck to me
My husband Sir Paul was weak and ill-looking to me


At night he was a horse's neck to me
At night, he kept me awake like a horse's neck would


So I performed an appendectomy
So, to get rid of him, I performed an appendectomy on him


Sir Thomas had insomnia, he couldn't sleep at night
My husband Sir Thomas suffered from insomnia and couldn't sleep at night


I bought a little arsenic, he's sleeping now all right
So I got some arsenic and poisoned him, now he's sleeping permanently


Sir Philip played the harp, I cussed the thing
My husband Sir Philip played the harp, I hated it


I crowned him with his harp to bust the thing
So, I hit him over the head with his own harp to break it


And now he plays where harps are just the thing
But I imagine now he plays in heaven where harps are more appropriate


I thought Sir George had possibilities
My husband Sir George showed potential to me


But his flirtations made me ill at ease
However, his flirting made me uneasy


And when I'm ill at ease, I kill at ease
So, when I'm uneasy, I find it easier to kill them


Sir Charles came from a sanatorium
Sir Charles was released from a sanatorium


And yelled for drinks in my emporium
He started demanding drinks when we returned home


I mixed one drink, he's in memorium
So, I mixed him a poison drink, and now he is dead


Sir Francis was a singing bird, a nightingale, that's why
Sir Francis had a beautiful voice and sang like a nightingale


I tossed him off my balcony, to see if he, could fly
So, to test his singing ability, I threw him off my balcony like a bird


Sir Atherton indulged in fratricide
My husband Sir Atherton killed his own brother, it was fratricide


He killed his dad and that was patricide
He also killed his own father, which was patricide


One night I stabbed him by my mattress-side
So, one night I stabbed him by our bed


To keep my love alive
All this killing is to keep up the appearance of still "loving" them


To keep my love alive
And to avoid getting caught by the authorities and punishment




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc., CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC
Written by: LORENZ HART, RICHARD RODGERS

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@lamontrussell1524

Lyrics
I've been married, and married, and often I've sighed
"I'm never a bridesmaid, I'm always a bride"

I never divorced them, I hadn't the heart
Yet remember these sweet words, "'till death do us part"

I married many men, a ton of them
Because I was untrue to none of them
Because I bumped off every one of them
To keep my love alive

Sir Paul was frail, he looked a wreck to me
At night he was a horse's neck to me
So I performed an appendectomy
To keep my love alive

Sir Thomas had insomnia, he couldn't sleep at night
I bought a little arsenic, he's sleeping now all right

Sir Philip played the harp, I cussed the thing
I crowned him with his harp to bust the thing
And now he plays where harps are just the thing
To keep my love alive
To keep my love alive

I thought Sir George had possibilities
But his flirtations made me ill at ease
And when I'm ill at ease, I kill at ease
To keep my love alive

Sir Charles came from a sanatorium
And yelled for drinks in my emporium
I mixed one drink, he's in memorium
To keep my love alive

Sir Francis was a singing bird, a nightingale, that's why
I tossed him off my balcony, to see if he, could fly

Sir Atherton indulged in fratricide,
He killed his dad and that was patricide
One night I stabbed him by my mattress-side
To keep my love alive
To keep my love alive
To keep my love alive



All comments from YouTube:

@ChristopherScottDixon

Delicious lyrics superbly delivered as always by Ella :-)

@grenvilleburrows281

The distinction of this song is that it was the very last song written by Richard Rodgers and Lorenz Hart. Larry Hart died (from alcoholism) just five days after the opening of a revised production of "A Connecticut Yankee" for which it had been composed. Rodgers and Hammerstein's "Oklahoma!" had opened a few months earlier in April 1943.

@potdog1000

brilliant, just brilliant

@Aadi1213

i love this song!!

@yasmeeno3499

Amazing song!

@phyllispetras3821

Blossom Dearie too!!!

@lawbail5956

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@limesquared

This is great!

@railroaded1000

Nice lyrics by Lorenz Hart :-

@redlilwitchy6088

😄 a girls gotta have her secrets for long lasting love. ✌

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